Tuesday, September 17, 2013

Endless Summer Sale – Lilly P

I love these twice a year sales from Lilly Pulitzer.  It’s the only time I purchase Lilly since their regular prices are too high for me!  I was a little disappointed this year since the sale prices seemed to be higher in general and they faced a lot of issues with their website due to such high web traffic.  I did manage to score a few pieces that I love.  My absolute favorite is the Love Note clutch.  It’s a metallic gold clutch with an enamel elephant on the front.  I love that it can transition through any season and how the metallic fabric really dresses up any outfit you pair it with.


I got the full outfit including shirt, skirt, necklace, and clutch for less than $80!  These pieces had an original retail value of $345 so I scored them for over 75% off.

Pencil Skirt (regularly $118)
Cleo Ruffle Top (regularly $49)
Sea Shell & Sand Dollar Necklace (regularly $68)
Love Note Clutch (regularly $110)





Thursday, August 8, 2013

Things we do for youth ministry

Last night was the kickoff for Ignition for the new school year! I cannot believe that this marks five and years with this ministry. This was a special milestone since this year we have a youth pastor again for the group and the energy and momentum are really working in our favor. We are starting the year off with a series called Identity Crisis. The concept is that we all struggle with the pressures both internally and externally to fit a certain mold or behave in certain ways. This can make life very complicated and make it very hard for us to have a clear picture of who we want to be and even harder to see the picture of what God wants us to be. In order to introduce the leaders for this year and for entertainment value the leaders opened the service with an alter ego fashion show.

We had all kind of alter egos: a ghost buster, Pocahontas, an army captain, an older cat lady, a colonial mother of 9, a redneck trucker, a hipster, etc. My costume was a Louisiana beauty pageant hopeful named Gracie Lou whose platform is to beautify the people of the world for Jesus. My husband was a Mexican wrestler who wrestling name is el feugo de pantalones. It was goofy and mildly embarrassing but overall it was a lot of fun. It is proof that when you are part of a ministry you will often end up doing plenty of things you never expected. My southern belle and homespun beauty queen act now has me slated to dress up as honey boo boo for the next skit. All kidding aside I feel so thankful to be able to spend another year working with these awesome students. My girls are now upperclassmen and it is really sinking in how much they have grown since I started working with them two years ago. It also marks the fact that some of my previous girls are entering their last year of college and my heart swells with pride at their accomplishments and their potential for the future. It is nice being able to stay part of their lives and become a friend as well as a mentor. It gives me hope that even as this group of girls head to college in 2 years that I know I will always get to be part of their lives! God is writing some amazing stories with these students’ lives and I am just amazed to get to witness it.



Tuesday, August 6, 2013

Bedroom Redesign

One of the reasons I love interior design and home décor so much is that spaces continually evolve.  This is the story of the evolution of our bedroom from 2007 to now.  It has grown and changed just as we have.  When we first moved which I’ll title Phase 0 we were fresh out of college.  We did not even have a bed frame and used two twin mattresses pushed together.  Due to the lack of a bed frame we frequently experienced a phenomenon we named the bed butt crack.  I think subconsciously I knew this had to be a temporary phase because I do not even have a photograph that I can find from that stage of this room.  Our design tactic for our bedroom at this time in 2007 was that we had just bought our first house and we needed almost all new furniture.  We were able to afford enough to get through the common area of the house but ran out of funds for furniture for the bedroom. 

Phase 1: In 2008 after our wedding we saved up and bought a canopy bed frame from Overstock and a new duvet cover from IKEA.  In looking back this room still looked like it needed some serious TLC but at the time we felt so accomplished and grown up with our new bed frame. 

Phase 2: We left the room in that state for quite a while.  In 2011 we finally thought about the room in a new way.  When we bought the house the previous owners had the bed along the long wall so naturally that’s the only way we could imagine it when we first moved in.  It made the dresser/bookshelf feel cramped on the tiny accent wall but the previous owners had lived there for 5 years before of course we felt like they knew the best layout for the room.  One day we were reflecting on our overgrown dresser on the baby wall and how our bed looked disproportionate on the long wall even though it’s a king sized bed.  We were hesitant at first but we rationalized that we didn’t like how it looked at that time and that it wouldn’t take but a few hours to try moving things around.  After some intense maneuvering we had the switch in place and eureka!  Also in this timeframe we painted the small accent wall a bluish gray color and finally framed some letter art of our last name that we had purchased in Savannah. 

Phase 3: Now that the room finally had the right layout for the major pieces of furniture we decided to play with some details.  In 2012 we added accent curtains which I made myself.  The hardware came from IKEA and so did the fabric which I cut to the appropriate length and then used fray stop on the edges to keep them crisp.  I really should have sewn the edges since a couple of the panels were not perfectly even from my scissor handiwork.  This is ultimately probably why they got upgraded again in Phase 4 but at the time we were really proud of them.  We also refinished two accent chairs that we found at a local salvage and antique store.  I really wanted a chaise in that reading nook area but I scored the two accent chairs for less than $70 including paint for updating the legs.  The cheapest chaise I could find that I liked was a few hundred dollars and definitely did not fit the budget.  I also had concerns about such a large piece of furniture overwhelming that smaller area.  One day once we have a larger house I will finally have my chaise.

Phase 4: I love a DIY blog called Young House Love.  It is like a vacation for my brain when I read about all their projects and drool over their well put together design choices.  I am always impressed at the impact they get from the money spent on a particular space.  One of my favorite spaces in their second home wall their photo wall in their hallway.  I loved how it was well balanced but also quirky and seemed to reflect their personal style so well.  I knew I would struggle with creating the same look in our house because I have always defaulted to perfectly matching and even wall décor.  As I’ve matured I’ve come to long things with more character and thought my husband and I would really enjoy pulling some pieces out of storage to go up on the walls.  In order to clean up the space we really needed to finally invest in real dressers.  For the first step we scoured the internet and stores for dressers we liked.  We found ones that took my breath away but then also felt like a kick to the stomach when I saw the price.  We decided that IKEA has the best balance of form, function, and price for us.  We bought three of the 3 drawer MALM dressers in black-brown for $79.99 each.  We “splurged” on the glass tops at $14.99 each.  The total cost was $307 which was half the price of smaller options we had found elsewhere.  It took Kyle about 4 hours to build all three dressers. 

Anyone who has been to IKEA knows it’s a trap so we also left with new curtains which are gorgeous and much more polished than my home spun creation.  We paid $24.99 for the curtains and used our existing hardware. 

While he worked on assembling the dressers I took on the photo wall planning.  We bought almost all the frames at Michael’s.  They had a buy one get one free sale on frames plus an extra 20% coupon including sale purchases.  We came home with 14 frames for $106.  We spent an additional $24 at Hobby Lobby on other accent piece for the wall, all either on sale or using a coupon.  I also spent an additional $5.41 printing extra pictures to use for some of the frames. 

Phase 4 Project Total:
Dressers - $307
Frames - $106
Wall Accents - $24
Curtains - $24.99
Photo Prints - $5.41
Grant Total – $467.40

It was not our cheapest project by any means but after five and a half years I can honestly say that we both finally love the look of our bedroom.  It feels great to finally have enough storage space since that is a constant challenge for us in our loft.  For anyone looking to do something similar the photo wall portion of the project came in for less than $150 so our biggest expense by far was the new dressers. 


Here are the photos from each phase including our favorite the final after photos.  





Monday, July 22, 2013

Fondue!

I am now a proud owner of a fondue pot!  I’m so excited – I feel like limitless new meal options have opened up to us.  The best part is that our local farmer’s market sells packaged cheese fondue from Switzerland.  I put the fondue pot to the test last night and was thrilled with the result!  I had the cheese fondue with crusty bread and gold fingerling potatoes.  It was excellent!  It brought back a lot of fun memories from our trip, while not the healthiest it was a very inexpensive and delicious meal. 


Next on my list to try making is oil or broth fondue for meats/veggies and chocolate fondue!


Dekalb Farmers Market

Produce, and Bread, and Spices, and Cheese – Oh My!  I had heard rave reviews from friends and family about this farmers market.  So I finally made it a point to go check it out for myself.  I was blown away!  I am so sad it took me this long to go.  Their produce is beautiful and fresh and so much cheaper than the big box grocery stores.   We went on a Saturday so it was packed but I look forward to visiting on a week night when it would be easier to maneuver around the store. 


We found so many yummy goodies and I plan to make the farmers market our new place for weekly grocery runs.  We got 6 bags of groceries including produce, spices, cheese, pasta, and sauce for $32.  Seriously I’m in love, sorry Kroger but it’s just not going to work out between us!  We can stay friends though because we will still need cleaning supplies and dog food.  


12 Mile, IN – Safety First!

This year marked our 5th trek to 12 Mile for the Fourth of July!  This trip has become something us and our friends really look forward to each year.  It’s fun to get away from the city, disconnect from technology, spend time outside, each great food, and enjoy the company of friends and family!  This was our biggest group yet, 9 other friends and family made the trip with for a total of 13 people this year. 


Some of the most memorable moments this year were: late night hay ride turned river fording adventure, being part of the parade, bonfires each night before bed, our best fireworks show yet, our cheesy/awesome family reunion style group photos, feeding the 4H animals (goats, horses, cows, etc.), Paul’s amazing cooking, an epic game of oversized Jenga, shuffleboard at the Fulton pub, the lawn mower races of course, and taking naps every day!


Vow Renewal

During our engagement Kyle and I spent a lot of time talking about things that were important to us.  This included revisiting conversations about our ambitions, family life, where we wanted to live, where we were heading in life, etc.  We also talked a lot about ways to keep the spark in our marriage and to stay focused on the commitment we were making.  We had seen divorce play such a strong role in the lives of people we knew and we wanted to make sure we never took our marriage for granted. 

One of the things we both committed to do was to renew our vows to one another every 5 years.  We both felt this would be a wonderful reminder that you don’t just make those promises once in your marriage but that those commitments are ongoing.  In preparing for our vow renewal for our five year anniversary I was flooded with wonderful memories of our first five years as a married couple.  I was also reminded of all the little and big things that are easy to take for granted in the hustle and bustle of day to day life. 
Since this was our first vow renewal we decided to have a barbecue in my parents’ backyard and invite friends and family.  Our friends and family have been such a treasured support system for us and this time we wanted them to be a part of our celebration.  For our 10 year we plan to run away to a beach somewhere!

Here are some pictures from our celebration and my vows to Kyle.




Kyle,

I cannot believe we have already been married for 5 years.  I can truly say that they have been the best years of my life!  No relationship is perfect but my world is brighter each day because you are in it.  I want to thank you for all you have done for me in our marriage.  You are a source of constant love and encouragement.  You refuse to let me wallow when I’m having a bad day and you are not afraid to act goofy just to bring a smile to my face.  You are a dreamer and an optimist and you keep me from taking myself entirely too seriously.  You are a romantic.  You always find ways in everyday life to demonstrate how much you love me. You are so grounded in your faith and you challenge and encourage me in my spiritual walk.  You inspire me!  When I think back on the adventures we have had over the last 11 years I’m filled with joy and I can’t wait to see what other adventures are in store for us. 

My sincere prayer and hope for us is that we both continue to work hard to keep our marriage healthy and strong.  I want us to continue to learn and grow from the amazing couples that surround us.  I am so thankful for the amazing support system we have in our family and friends. 

I promise to love and support you.  I promise to never take you for granted.  I promise to never go to bed angry and to seek counsel with you whenever I’m upset.  I promise that no matter what obstacles life may throw our way that I will love you unconditionally.  I will make you laugh and probably get under your skin at times but above all I will always be your greatest supporter and confidant.  You are forever my puzzle piece, God made you to fit together perfectly with me and me with you.  I love you!