We had all kind of alter egos: a ghost buster, Pocahontas, an army captain, an older cat lady, a colonial mother of 9, a redneck trucker, a hipster, etc. My costume was a Louisiana beauty pageant hopeful named Gracie Lou whose platform is to beautify the people of the world for Jesus. My husband was a Mexican wrestler who wrestling name is el feugo de pantalones. It was goofy and mildly embarrassing but overall it was a lot of fun. It is proof that when you are part of a ministry you will often end up doing plenty of things you never expected. My southern belle and homespun beauty queen act now has me slated to dress up as honey boo boo for the next skit. All kidding aside I feel so thankful to be able to spend another year working with these awesome students. My girls are now upperclassmen and it is really sinking in how much they have grown since I started working with them two years ago. It also marks the fact that some of my previous girls are entering their last year of college and my heart swells with pride at their accomplishments and their potential for the future. It is nice being able to stay part of their lives and become a friend as well as a mentor. It gives me hope that even as this group of girls head to college in 2 years that I know I will always get to be part of their lives! God is writing some amazing stories with these students’ lives and I am just amazed to get to witness it.
Thursday, August 8, 2013
Things we do for youth ministry
Last night was the kickoff for Ignition for the new school year! I cannot believe that this marks five and years with this ministry. This was a special milestone since this year we have a youth pastor again for the group and the energy and momentum are really working in our favor. We are starting the year off with a series called Identity Crisis. The concept is that we all struggle with the pressures both internally and externally to fit a certain mold or behave in certain ways. This can make life very complicated and make it very hard for us to have a clear picture of who we want to be and even harder to see the picture of what God wants us to be. In order to introduce the leaders for this year and for entertainment value the leaders opened the service with an alter ego fashion show.
We had all kind of alter egos: a ghost buster, Pocahontas, an army captain, an older cat lady, a colonial mother of 9, a redneck trucker, a hipster, etc. My costume was a Louisiana beauty pageant hopeful named Gracie Lou whose platform is to beautify the people of the world for Jesus. My husband was a Mexican wrestler who wrestling name is el feugo de pantalones. It was goofy and mildly embarrassing but overall it was a lot of fun. It is proof that when you are part of a ministry you will often end up doing plenty of things you never expected. My southern belle and homespun beauty queen act now has me slated to dress up as honey boo boo for the next skit. All kidding aside I feel so thankful to be able to spend another year working with these awesome students. My girls are now upperclassmen and it is really sinking in how much they have grown since I started working with them two years ago. It also marks the fact that some of my previous girls are entering their last year of college and my heart swells with pride at their accomplishments and their potential for the future. It is nice being able to stay part of their lives and become a friend as well as a mentor. It gives me hope that even as this group of girls head to college in 2 years that I know I will always get to be part of their lives! God is writing some amazing stories with these students’ lives and I am just amazed to get to witness it.
We had all kind of alter egos: a ghost buster, Pocahontas, an army captain, an older cat lady, a colonial mother of 9, a redneck trucker, a hipster, etc. My costume was a Louisiana beauty pageant hopeful named Gracie Lou whose platform is to beautify the people of the world for Jesus. My husband was a Mexican wrestler who wrestling name is el feugo de pantalones. It was goofy and mildly embarrassing but overall it was a lot of fun. It is proof that when you are part of a ministry you will often end up doing plenty of things you never expected. My southern belle and homespun beauty queen act now has me slated to dress up as honey boo boo for the next skit. All kidding aside I feel so thankful to be able to spend another year working with these awesome students. My girls are now upperclassmen and it is really sinking in how much they have grown since I started working with them two years ago. It also marks the fact that some of my previous girls are entering their last year of college and my heart swells with pride at their accomplishments and their potential for the future. It is nice being able to stay part of their lives and become a friend as well as a mentor. It gives me hope that even as this group of girls head to college in 2 years that I know I will always get to be part of their lives! God is writing some amazing stories with these students’ lives and I am just amazed to get to witness it.
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
Bedroom Redesign
One of the reasons I love interior design and home décor so
much is that spaces continually evolve.
This is the story of the evolution of our bedroom from 2007 to now. It has grown and changed just as we
have. When we first moved which I’ll
title Phase 0 we were fresh out of college.
We did not even have a bed frame and used two twin mattresses pushed
together. Due to the lack of a bed frame
we frequently experienced a phenomenon we named the bed butt crack. I think subconsciously I knew this had to be
a temporary phase because I do not even have a photograph that I can find from
that stage of this room. Our design
tactic for our bedroom at this time in 2007 was that we had just bought our
first house and we needed almost all new furniture. We were able to afford enough to get through
the common area of the house but ran out of funds for furniture for the
bedroom.
Phase 1: In 2008 after our wedding we saved up and bought a
canopy bed frame from Overstock and a new duvet cover from IKEA. In looking back this room still looked like
it needed some serious TLC but at the time we felt so accomplished and grown up
with our new bed frame.
Phase 2: We left the room in that state for quite a
while. In 2011 we finally thought about
the room in a new way. When we bought
the house the previous owners had the bed along the long wall so naturally
that’s the only way we could imagine it when we first moved in. It made the dresser/bookshelf feel cramped on
the tiny accent wall but the previous owners had lived there for 5 years before
of course we felt like they knew the best layout for the room. One day we were reflecting on our overgrown
dresser on the baby wall and how our bed looked disproportionate on the long
wall even though it’s a king sized bed.
We were hesitant at first but we rationalized that we didn’t like how it
looked at that time and that it wouldn’t take but a few hours to try moving
things around. After some intense
maneuvering we had the switch in place and eureka! Also in this timeframe we painted the small
accent wall a bluish gray color and finally framed some letter art of our last
name that we had purchased in Savannah.
Phase 3: Now that the room finally had the right layout for
the major pieces of furniture we decided to play with some details. In 2012 we added accent curtains which I made
myself. The hardware came from IKEA and
so did the fabric which I cut to the appropriate length and then used fray stop
on the edges to keep them crisp. I
really should have sewn the edges since a couple of the panels were not
perfectly even from my scissor handiwork.
This is ultimately probably why they got upgraded again in Phase 4 but at the time we were really proud of them. We also refinished
two accent chairs that we found at a local salvage and antique store. I really wanted a chaise in that reading nook
area but I scored the two accent chairs for less than $70 including paint for
updating the legs. The cheapest chaise I
could find that I liked was a few hundred dollars and definitely did not fit
the budget. I also had concerns about
such a large piece of furniture overwhelming that smaller area. One day once we have a larger house I will
finally have my chaise.
Phase 4: I love a DIY blog called Young House Love. It is like a vacation for my brain when I read
about all their projects and drool over their well put together design
choices. I am always impressed at the
impact they get from the money spent on a particular space. One of my favorite spaces in their second
home wall their photo wall in their hallway.
I loved how it was well balanced but also quirky and seemed to reflect
their personal style so well. I knew I
would struggle with creating the same look in our house because I have always
defaulted to perfectly matching and even wall décor. As I’ve matured I’ve come to long things with
more character and thought my husband and I would really enjoy pulling some
pieces out of storage to go up on the walls.
In order to clean up the space we really needed to finally invest in
real dressers. For the first step we
scoured the internet and stores for dressers we liked. We found ones that took my breath away but
then also felt like a kick to the stomach when I saw the price. We decided that IKEA has the best balance of
form, function, and price for us. We
bought three of the 3 drawer MALM dressers in black-brown for $79.99 each. We “splurged” on the glass tops at $14.99
each. The total cost was $307 which was
half the price of smaller options we had found elsewhere. It took Kyle about 4 hours to build all three
dressers.
Anyone who has been to IKEA knows it’s a trap so we also
left with new curtains which are gorgeous and much more polished than my home
spun creation. We paid $24.99 for the
curtains and used our existing hardware.
While he worked on assembling the dressers I took on the photo wall
planning. We bought almost all the
frames at Michael’s. They had a buy one
get one free sale on frames plus an extra 20% coupon including sale purchases. We came home with 14 frames for $106. We spent an additional $24 at Hobby Lobby on
other accent piece for the wall, all either on sale or using a coupon. I also spent an additional $5.41 printing
extra pictures to use for some of the frames.
Phase 4 Project Total:
Dressers - $307
Frames - $106
Wall Accents - $24
Curtains - $24.99
Photo Prints - $5.41
Grant Total – $467.40
Dressers - $307
Frames - $106
Wall Accents - $24
Curtains - $24.99
Photo Prints - $5.41
Grant Total – $467.40
It was not our cheapest project by any means but after five
and a half years I can honestly say that we both finally love the look of our
bedroom. It feels great to finally have
enough storage space since that is a constant challenge for us in our
loft. For anyone looking to do something
similar the photo wall portion of the project came in for less than $150 so our
biggest expense by far was the new dressers.
Here are the photos from each phase including our favorite
the final after photos.
Monday, July 22, 2013
Fondue!
I am now a proud owner of a fondue pot! I’m so excited – I feel like limitless new
meal options have opened up to us. The
best part is that our local farmer’s market sells packaged cheese fondue from
Switzerland. I put the fondue pot to the
test last night and was thrilled with the result! I had the cheese fondue with crusty bread and
gold fingerling potatoes. It was
excellent! It brought back a lot of fun
memories from our trip, while not the healthiest it was a very inexpensive and
delicious meal.
Next on my list to try making is oil or broth fondue for
meats/veggies and chocolate fondue!
Dekalb Farmers Market
Produce, and Bread, and Spices, and Cheese – Oh My! I had heard rave reviews from friends and
family about this farmers market. So I
finally made it a point to go check it out for myself. I was blown away! I am so sad it took me this long to go. Their produce is beautiful and fresh and so
much cheaper than the big box grocery stores.
We went on a Saturday so it was packed but I look forward to visiting on
a week night when it would be easier to maneuver around the store.
We found so many yummy goodies and I plan to make the
farmers market our new place for weekly grocery runs. We got 6 bags of groceries including produce,
spices, cheese, pasta, and sauce for $32.
Seriously I’m in love, sorry Kroger but it’s just not going to work out
between us! We can stay friends though
because we will still need cleaning supplies and dog food.
12 Mile, IN – Safety First!
This year marked our 5th trek to 12 Mile for the
Fourth of July! This trip has become
something us and our friends really look forward to each year. It’s fun to get away from the city,
disconnect from technology, spend time outside, each great food, and enjoy the
company of friends and family! This was
our biggest group yet, 9 other friends and family made the trip with for a
total of 13 people this year.
Some of the most memorable moments this year were: late
night hay ride turned river fording adventure, being part of the parade,
bonfires each night before bed, our best fireworks show yet, our cheesy/awesome
family reunion style group photos, feeding the 4H animals (goats, horses, cows,
etc.), Paul’s amazing cooking, an epic game of oversized Jenga, shuffleboard at
the Fulton pub, the lawn mower races of course, and taking naps every day!
Vow Renewal
During our engagement Kyle and I spent a lot of time talking
about things that were important to us.
This included revisiting conversations about our ambitions, family life,
where we wanted to live, where we were heading in life, etc. We also talked a lot about ways to keep the
spark in our marriage and to stay focused on the commitment we were
making. We had seen divorce play such a
strong role in the lives of people we knew and we wanted to make sure we never
took our marriage for granted.
One of the things we both committed to do was to renew our
vows to one another every 5 years. We
both felt this would be a wonderful reminder that you don’t just make those
promises once in your marriage but that those commitments are ongoing. In preparing for our vow renewal for our five
year anniversary I was flooded with wonderful memories of our first five years
as a married couple. I was also reminded
of all the little and big things that are easy to take for granted in the
hustle and bustle of day to day life.
Since this was our first vow renewal we decided to have a
barbecue in my parents’ backyard and invite friends and family. Our friends and family have been such a
treasured support system for us and this time we wanted them to be a part of our
celebration. For our 10 year we plan to
run away to a beach somewhere!
Here are some pictures from our celebration and my vows to
Kyle.
Kyle,
I cannot believe we have already been married for 5
years. I can truly say that they have
been the best years of my life! No
relationship is perfect but my world is brighter each day because you are in
it. I want to thank you for all you have
done for me in our marriage. You are a
source of constant love and encouragement.
You refuse to let me wallow when I’m having a bad day and you are not
afraid to act goofy just to bring a smile to my face. You are a dreamer and an optimist and you
keep me from taking myself entirely too seriously. You are a romantic. You always find ways in everyday life to demonstrate
how much you love me. You are so grounded in your faith and you challenge and
encourage me in my spiritual walk. You
inspire me! When I think back on the
adventures we have had over the last 11 years I’m filled with joy and I can’t
wait to see what other adventures are in store for us.
My sincere prayer and hope for us is that we both continue
to work hard to keep our marriage healthy and strong. I want us to continue to learn and grow from
the amazing couples that surround us. I
am so thankful for the amazing support system we have in our family and
friends.
I promise to love and support you. I promise to never take you for granted. I promise to never go to bed angry and to
seek counsel with you whenever I’m upset.
I promise that no matter what obstacles life may throw our way that I
will love you unconditionally. I will
make you laugh and probably get under your skin at times but above all I will
always be your greatest supporter and confidant. You are forever my puzzle piece, God made you
to fit together perfectly with me and me with you. I love you!
Wednesday, June 5, 2013
A House with Four Rooms
Another post inspired by one of Gretchen Rubin’s recent blog
posts. She posted this quote:
“There is an Indian proverb or axiom that says that everyone
is a house with four rooms, a physical, a mental, an emotional and a spiritual.
Most of us tend to live in one room most of the time but, unless we go into
every room every day, even if only to keep it aired, we are not a complete
person.”
–Rumer Godden, A House with Four Rooms
Often times I read her blog and immediately think of ways I
should improve an aspect of my life.
This was a nice reprieve since I feel like this is something I am
currently doing well. While I may not
enter all four room every day, I do have a least one activity each week that
focuses on each of these areas.
- Physical – working out and focusing on healthier eating (multiple times a week)
- Mental – challenging myself at work, reading, blogging, etc.
- Emotional – I often discover a lot about my emotional state in conversations with my closest friends and family (my husband, best friend, parents, etc.). I have made it a point to make time for these conversations on a weekly basis.
- Spiritual – church service, mentoring the student youth group, prayer
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